He tells whatever lie he thinks will negate the current thing he's been caught out on
Yep.
The January letter to Dijana was a bizarre mix of sloppy storytelling along with the classic dosage of Lloyd Evans manipulation. Let’s not forget he related that Cara’s friends were with them for the evening, as if a group of younger women had a entire night to burn in Pa Tong with a slovenly and overweight Lloyd Evans.
Let’s just be real - no one was going to date that guy in Thailand without getting compensated for it. It’s so obviously a hooker and it’s not only pathetic, but typical of his delusion how he frames it otherwise. What tourist traveling to sex tourism hotspot Pa Tong is packing along a hotel maid outfit for role play? And her friends were in on the pics? Did they post them on IG or FB and all their friends were wondering what that 40 something y.o. fat guy was doing with a group of women in their 20s? The story immediately falls apart upon examination. He admits that the hotel maid photos were taken but that nothing happened and he walked her to her hotel. Huh? Where were those pics taken then? A foreign tourist dressed as a hotel maid (and her friends!) in Thailand poses with random guys at a bar?
From the sound of that letter, it would seem to me that Lloyd was trying to push the narrative that younger women were interested him in - a point he makes in the letter. He even says he wasn’t ashamed of the photos. Considering that the audience was his wife, it was his pathetic attempt to minimise and degrade her, making her think she was not good enough for him and should she pursue the divorce, he had a lot of other options.